Can anyone really change who they are? Or we just are the same person all our life? Or why change at all?
There are as many questions as there are people in this world. But if you look closely you will see that they have a general theme to it. But the most important question of all is “Why are we not happy with ourselves?” What I think the main reason is TV. Plain and simple either it is ads, news, shows or movies. It do not matter what it is what all of this things are doing to you without your concerned is amazing.
Even when you know what is happening most of the time you cannot do anything about it. Because if you are smart enough to get above it most of the people surround you will not so that create a unique problem of sought.
The first thing that you need to change before anything is your thinking. You cannot achieve anything meaningful until you do that. Because no matter what you do or where you end up. You will be yourself. If you not happy now then there is a slim chance that you can be happy in the future.
What most of us think is that if we have this or that it will be different but it won’t be. For example when I was starting to type my speed was at 20 wpm no matter what I did I was not able to improve it for months.
I thought that if my speed will increase it will make me happy. That I have achieved something of value but today when my speed is at 40 wpm it is the same feeling that I had at 20 wpm. So even when my speed has doubled but my happiness has not.
It can be applied to anything for most people it is money they think that if they more money then they will have less problem and more joy. It can true at the start but when you are making enough money to get you basic needs taken care off more money do not mean more happiness.
Even after they have found this to be true most of the people will not stop doing the same things that they have been doing in the past. They do not get it. To simply put it. You have to change that you cannot evolve without your thinking evolving with you.
You have to understand one thing that is the true change can only come from within. You cannot have the same results with changing you exterior. As you will have when you change your reality. So it important to understand that you know that.
So how to change your inside
To change your inside you first have to find out what you have in there. If you do not know what you are working with then it will be hard to do the change.
Then find out the things that are holding you back. Focus on one thing at a time. Change is hard but you will see it is worth it because it is new. As human we are always attracted to the new.