Living your life by your own rules is not a easy thing thing to do. But it is the most rewarding thing that you can do in your life on this planet earth. So it important that you make your rules and live by them.
So the first step of all this is that you know what your rules are so that you can start to live your life by your rules. It do not mean that you cannot change them when there is a need for it. You have to understand that you will face different challenges in life and during those you sometimes have to change what you have made rules in the start.
So it very necessary that you understand one thing that life is change. Everything in your life is changing all the time if you do not change with it then you are going to fall behind and left so you have learn to change and adapt. But this doesn’t mean that you have to follow other persons rules. It only mean that you have keep your rules up to date.
If you live long enough, you’ll make mistakes. But if you learn from them, you’ll be a better person. It’s how you handle adversity, not how it affects you. The main thing is never quit, never quit, never quit.
William J. Clinton
Be Prepared for some resistance
You have to be prepared for some resistance from most of of the people in your life. Because they are human too and they do not want things to change. But when you change things as your path to growth you will see that they will feel uneasy and what you to go back to the way it was.
If you continuously compete with others, you become bitter, but if you continuously compete with yourself, you become better.
Be always ready to find better ways
Living by your own rules do not mean that you have to stop growing. As we know that life is change. You have to be able to adapt to new things in your life. Be able to find the best path for you even when it mean that you have to change your believe and rules that you have made previously.
Be considered of other people rules
When you live by your own rules you have to let other people also live by there rules you should not force them to follow your rules you have to give them there own freedom to chose what is right for them in there life.
To make rules in your life you have to know that is important to you the most. It will help you a lot in making the right decision in your life. You should have major life goal that will take to 5 to 10 years to achieve this are the things that you want to be remember for.
You should spend 70% of your time in finding out that is your major purpose in life. When you are able to pin point that everything else is just an easy journey from there on.
So take out your papers and write what is it that you want to accomplish in this life of yours it can be anything you have to believe in what you want and go for it.
Living by your own rule is not a easy task. It is easier to just follow somebody else s rule when you live your life. But it not as satisfying as living by your rules. Nobody will make this choice for you have to understand that you have to make your own choice. Keep reading keep learning.
The truth is you don’t know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed.