What is Personality?
The Personality is way we think, feel and behave that is what makes all of use different. So what is a good personality. It is combination to that that you like in someone. There are some treats that are universal liked that is what we call a good personality.
As we all know that looks can take you to some level but to truly get success and liked by people we have to have some good personality treats.
How To Develop Your Personality
For a long time it was believed that personality is permanent. What that mean is that we are what we are and we cannot change. Because of William James, the famous Harvard psychologist, wrote The Principles of Psychology, in which we said that, personality is “set in plaster” by early adulthood. This view stayed for a long time by as time passed by we have reason to believe that personality is more fluid. So now we control over which traits and characteristics we want to develop or refine.
Having a good personality can help in your social life, in your home, your career and guarantee a happier life in general. Some people have particularly magnetic and charismatic personas, while other people are strong listeners and advice-givers. In cultivating and nourishing an individual personality, it is important to have the ability to build on and develop strengths, while at the same time acknowledging and working to improve on the weak points in your personality. There are ways to build and develop a personality that truly reflects who you would like to be.
Do you often wonder how to improve your personality? If you really want to improve your personality, first of all you need to know why you want to improve ?You can accomplish anything once you know why you want to do it. And how much it matter in your life. Anyway, that’s totally a different topic.
Ways To Develop Your Personality :-
1. Become a Better Listener
Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis was considered one of the most charming women in the world because she cultivated the skill of being an exceptional listener. She was known for the way she would look a person in the eyes, hang on their every word, and make them feel important. There is nothing more appealing than having someone listen to you making you feel like you’re the only person in the world.
2. Read More: Read Something Everyday
The more you read and cultivate new interests, the more interesting you become. In this why you have more share with people and enjoy more interesting company.
3. Take a Genuine Interest In Others:
The more curiosity you have in other people and things, the more you will be able to learn about the world, which can enhance your personality. Learn what makes other people tick by asking a lot of open-ended questions about life goals, hobbies, favorite television shows and movies, sports and other topics of interest. In this way you will have a lot good friends.
4. Have a Goal For Your Life:
Many strong personalities are shaped and molded by big visions and goals that they have for there life. Determine what it is that you want to accomplish most with your time on earth, whether it is to start up a charitable organization or become a successful painter. Setting goals is a major step on the road to developing a more engaging and fascinating personality.
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5. Have an Opinion
There is nothing more tiresome than trying to talk to someone who has no opinion on anything. A conversation has nowhere to go if you have nothing to expound on. If, however, you have an uncommon point of view or differing opinion, you are more interesting and stimulating to be with socially (unless you’re a know-it-all, of course). A unique outlook expands everyone’s perspective.
6. Be An Active Listener:
Although most people are happy to discuss themselves but it’s refreshing to encounter a person who is happy to listen with interest. Engage other people sincerely and do your best to make them feel valued and special. The better you make other people feel about themselves, the better they will probably feel about you.
7. Know Your Faults:
To identify and develop what it is good about you, it is important to first admit and acknowledge your setbacks. Having the ability to say that you are not perfect can be endearing because it is so rare — most people try to ignore and push away things that they don’t like about themselves. But you can’t change what you don’t acknowledge. So discover you faults and make them your strong point.
8. Expand Your Mind
Become a more intriguing and well-rounded person by widening your universe. Learn to speak German, travel to Costa Rica to learn surfing, meditate, design your own clothing, take cooking classes; if you are interested in something, pursue it. Avoid excuses such as not having enough time — after all, you only have one life to live.
9. Accept And Recognize Your Weak Points
You cannot develop your strengths without knowing your weaknesses. If you keep on living in denial you will never be able to improve your personality. Once you know your weaknesses you can work on them and improve them. So in order to improve your personality first of all you have to accept and recognize your weak points.
10. Don’t Judge People All The Time
People with weak personality traits have this problem — they are constantly judging and evaluating people and they are constantly worried what people think about them and how people react to them. Worrying about others’ reaction is not going to solve your problem. When you stop judging people you can be more relaxed and be yourself by doing that you will be able to live your life more.
11. Learn To Like Others
People with great personalities love the company of other people. Don’t think that since they already have great personalities people flock around them; that’s not the case.
Do something new everyday have fun. First like and accept what you are because if you don’t like what you are now you will be not happy even after the change.
You should read Unlimited Power: The New Science of Personal Achievement – Anthony Robbins if you want to change your life forever.